Good Deed :#34 Be intimate with your spouse
PG – contains adult content.
- Prophet God’s Messenger(s) said: “In the sexual act of each of you there is a sadaqa.” The Companions replied: “0 Messenger of God! When one of us fulfils his sexual desire, will he be given a reward for that?” And he said, “Do you not think that were he to act upon it unlawfully, he would be sinning? Likewise, if he acts upon it lawfully he will be rewarded.” (Muslim)
- “Your wives are as a tilth unto you; so approach your tilth when and how you will” (2:223)
- “And among His Signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves, that ye may dwell in tranquillity with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts). Verily in that are Signs for those who reflect.” [Qur’an 30:21]
Heba Kotb – Dr Ruth of the muslim world – Website
Action Plan
1. Read the following links
- Fiqh of the First Night of Marriage – Sunnipath
- Etiquette of the first night
- The Muslim marriage guide by Ruqayya Waris Maqsood
2. If you having any problems with your intimate relations with your spouse visit Heba Kotb’s website Intimate relationship is highly secretive and highly recommended religiously (so long as it is inside marriage-bond and not during fasting). Once a week, however, Heba Kotb hosts an advice show that is broadcast across the Arab world, and she does not hold back. Kotb will answer phone-in questions from the public about anything regarding marital relationships. Allah is central to Kotb’s approach to relations, and while she has four graduate degrees, her main resource isn’t a textbook. It is the holy book of her Islamic faith the Quran. Want to find out more or have some questions and looking for answers from an Islamic perspective. Contact Dr. Heba Gamal Kotb Work (office): +202 3036708 Mobile (cellular): +2010 16 48 560 Telephone #: +202 3058288 Fax #: +202 34 54 123
Ask@hebakotb.net Heba Kotb website
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